- Had a prolonged and difficult delivery--for us, it was 12 hours of hard labor, 8 hours of pushing, and an emergency C-section.
- Began speaking late, had a soft mouth during attempted speech, and loved mimicking sounds instead of using words. We learned and taught Ian sign language to communicate early on and through the speech development.
- Did not dump out his toys, but brought everything out one by one and lined them up in some order.
- Did not respond when we called, but needed a touch to get his attention.
- Stared intensely into your eyes.
- Loved his "Johnny jump-up" and being bounced hard on his belly.
- Would not heed common-sense dangers or show any sign of fear or concern--e.g. totter into oncoming traffic of any sorts. Throwing a rock at someone was fine because it was a "pretend stone".
- Would not heed common-sense boundaries of social expectations--e.g. ducking under someone's flowing skirt to play hide and seek.
These indicators were identified by my brother-in-law who is a special education teacher, but because Ian was so high functioning and intelligent, we could not get a label for him.
~ Shien